Running away- a huge leap towards disaster

Okay... Finally I am writing again after a huge gap and that too about a topic that I feel so very strongly about. The title is a phrase very often when talking to my peers on problems and a way to handle it. It’s my favourite catch phrase…!!! :)Basically, all of us have problems at every stage of our life right from school days to our old age... The problems vary but our way of handling it, the basic approach is invariantly same because it reflects a great deal on the kind of person we are! Many problems lead to a stage when you gotta either confront, face the music as they say! Many of us do it... Almost everybody does! But some people chose to walk away, ignore, or even distract themselves when they reach this stage. They postpone that “climax” moment not knowing that it’s gonna come back again and there is a high chance that when it does the situation might not be in our control. Running away can never be a solution. It always yes always makes things worse, uglier and breaks a lot of hearts, trust that took years to gain on its way. There is only one right way to solve/handle a problem... Look it in the eye and face whatever has to happen. That way we control the situation, and it’s a lot more correct to bow down your head because you are sorry, than to put your head down because you have lost the battle. In the former case you don’t lose a battle…on the contrary you gain a very good lesson that enables you to be a better person in the future. So friends, pls next time you have a problem, face it then and there. Walk up to it bravely and scare the hell out of it!

luv..nd my take on it..!!

hi ..its me again.to tel u hw i feel abt sumthing..jus to let it out..!! hmm..k lets c.. LOVE..! hmm..obviously a very very common word nwadays dat i keep hearing around me everywhere..! bt sadly the way ppl define it..it jus gets on my nerves..! i disagree with them so much on many levels..! love today has become commercialized lyk the way festivals round us have gt commercialized..! it s associated with cellphones,teddy bears, heart shaped keychains and MACDONALDS, KFC..EA,SKYWALK..bt nt wit wat it shud actually be.."compatibility,real understanding,dose spl moments,gud friendship,respect fr each other,mutual trust,blind faith..and a kind of bond dat makes u feel spl.." u mite argue saying al the above objects i mentioned are jus manifestations of the feelings or qualities..well if dats the case fyn..bt trust me dre r sum ppl..who r nly taking the first set of things into account.. hmm..sum ppl r ryt."being in a relationship" is very different frm "being in luv" ..! moreover i cnt understand hw wen u r in luv..d dominace factor cums into account..luv is all abt being in harmony..taking decisions together..being in sync.! lyk in a sng or dnce..the rythm,beat.vocal r al together..nthng dominates anythng..!! dats hw luv is supposed to be...!

are we really growing ????????????

India is growing,steadily progressing towards change,diversifying...is it ?? are we really changing ?? honestly i dnt thnk so.. !!! cuz in reality the change lies in the individual's hand..and the future lies in our hand..! "the all mighty and strong youth.." the youth who watever u mite say or argue is still hasnt changed..!! i am a college student..and my classmates who are literate and have more than basic education and are exposed to every damn thing about gender equalty topic..and stil i hear dem say " u r a girl..dre s a certain way in which u gta behave.." almost every week..!! dis basic change is nt hpng in dis small level..so i was into betting..i wuld nt bet that dis thing wil change evn after 50 years because in 50 years we are gna be in responsiblity of defining our lives..nd if we cant get over this small things..forget the bigger stones like corruption,fair play,democracy...! dey probably dn evn figure in our dictionary.. !

PS: not intending any1..nd evn if i did..its true..! nothing above is false..! its jus reality..pls take it with a pinch of salt..!

my take on friendship.. !!

People often say that love is the most mysterious and unexplainable feeling in the world. but i feel that friendhsip scores above that in all the above said areas. cuz all the relationships start with friendhsip. only then it has the potential to go to the next level. friendhsip is a mystic bond shared between people. u hang out with your friends,spend every possible waking moment with them , share all our mind breaking, earth stopping feelings with them. they might not be 1% like you are but u see urself in them like they r some kind of mirrors.
U fyt wit them, quarrel with them lyk rogues, but after a minute problem your heart soul and mind immediatley stars aching for their presence. their words "heyy..chill..stop being a baby..we can get over this..relax.." ,their actions defending u even if it as ur mistake.. !
friendship is the ability of our heart to look beyind our frnz flaws, respect them for what they are..and jus need them and be there for them every second of our life.. !
life can not be great without this "friendhsip" in the world..! this is what makes the life ride worthwhile..! it reduces our worries and immensely mulitplies our happiness..!
Jus think : all those idiotic inside jokes, insanely loud laughter for no obvious reason, stupid touchy feely nonsense ... can u evn imagine lyf without it..? well, honestly i cant..!
so..here's to my frnds..for without idiots..lyk dsnt seem worthwile..!!

Mum...Dad m growing up..!!

hi frnzz.. ma first blog was abt kids who desert their parents! m gonna give another perspective on the parent-kid relationship..! there are some things that we can never deny..!Lyk, this is the most purest , strngest and unselfish relationship of all times !! but sumtyms itsnt picture perfect ! the above qualities are there bt sumtyms they tend to overdo themselves ! todays "hi-tech" "modern" and "so-called sophisticated" world has left may parents with a big "?" over their faces on how to have the right connection with their kid..! some think that they can "protect" their kids from the world jus by making all the decisions for them because then nothing can go wrong.. and we wil al be safe..! bt dats not so..! hw long wil be under them..? how long wil they cum along us..holding our hands..showing us the way ? At one point,
we would have to take some decision on our own and that might be an important one and mite be the first tym we do it ! wht if we go wrng.. ? dats it ryt.? al efforts in vain..! also our parents sumtyms out of xperience remember the mistakes that they once did in their life..and passionately restrict us.. from doing things on our own ! but u knw they frget sumtyms dat we wnt do the mistakes dat we did.. ! We have new , better msitakes ;) to make..! ryt..?
we would like some freedom to take our decisions but we would definitely appreciate your advice...but the final say must be ours ! After all we are gonna live with it..and if our decisions go wrong we will atleast know how to correct it !

OLD IS GOLD !

OLD IS GOLD..! A saying that we have been hearing from invariably all our elders..whenever we try to shun the advice they give us..!! But sometimes we need to stop and accept that there is sum truth in this for sure..!! I m writing this after being thoroughly dejected after seeing the state of many elders in the age of ma grandparents.! Its so sad that after so many years of love and care and affection they showered on their kids..Jus in the hope that one day they will get the same things form their kids..only thing that remains with them is whole hearted disappointment..! They r left all alone as they kids “fly away from the nest” jus soon after they get settled..Only and in sum cases not even that ….giving them financial support.! What they don’t realize is that what our elders really crave for ,in their second childhood is jus pure love, care and the fact that there kids are there for them and with them….!!  So I would like to request all ma fellow youth society..to stop this atrocity.!! U want to go make a career..in states..do it.! Marry somebody of your own choice..do it..! But make sure that in that “best future” u are planning for u and your yet not there kids..u don’t leave out your now existent and important parents..! Pls frnds…bringing your parents to this state..in their old age..is the most inhuman thing u can do..worse than murder..!! AND DON’T FORGET WHAT GOES AROUND…COMES BACK..!! The world might be moving ahead..but parents are parents..!! Nothing can change it..!!