Sun is a heavenly body. Ok..when i said "sun" didn't you automatically picture a giant yellow round thing..??! But many of us know that IT is not how the sun looks like..but still our mind generates that image because our mind or our brain works on a very ancient but true idiom "seeing is believing.." ! It is the same reason why we have been taught that "actions speak louder than words" from our very own childhood. Seeing is believing..this idiom has caught my attention for quite some time now. As many of my friends might know..i love to dabble and experiment in a very interesting and mysterious science called "psychology" and this idiom i think explains a lot of human behaviour. When we hear a person saying "I helped an old lady cross a street yesterday.." most of the time, the skeptic in us would go.."yeah!right..*rolling eyes*" but when you see a person actually do that thing..we immediately believe that person to be kind , thoughtful etc etc irrespective of that fact we know nothing about him/her ! In malls, when we see couple holding hands..we go"aw w..cute" but when a person in love comes upto you and starts talking to you about how they feel..you will probably think "yeah..OK i believe you! (sarcastically)" so here's the bottom line ..what i want to say is you think somebody is judging you wrongly..don't go and talk ! Just be yourself for them to see and believe..! Your loved ones doesn't really trust your words..stop explaining..show them and make them believe..! The basic key to gaining a person's trust is to make them see what you really want to project and let them make their won decisions..because those are the decisions that are gonna stick for life !!
So this is my "eureka! kind of discovery.." agree or disagree ??
