Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Running away- a huge leap towards disaster

Okay... Finally I am writing again after a huge gap and that too about a topic that I feel so very strongly about. The title is a phrase very often when talking to my peers on problems and a way to handle it. It’s my favourite catch phrase…!!! :)Basically, all of us have problems at every stage of our life right from school days to our old age... The problems vary but our way of handling it, the basic approach is invariantly same because it reflects a great deal on the kind of person we are! Many problems lead to a stage when you gotta either confront, face the music as they say! Many of us do it... Almost everybody does! But some people chose to walk away, ignore, or even distract themselves when they reach this stage. They postpone that “climax” moment not knowing that it’s gonna come back again and there is a high chance that when it does the situation might not be in our control. Running away can never be a solution. It always yes always makes things worse, uglier and breaks a lot of hearts, trust that took years to gain on its way. There is only one right way to solve/handle a problem... Look it in the eye and face whatever has to happen. That way we control the situation, and it’s a lot more correct to bow down your head because you are sorry, than to put your head down because you have lost the battle. In the former case you don’t lose a battle…on the contrary you gain a very good lesson that enables you to be a better person in the future. So friends, pls next time you have a problem, face it then and there. Walk up to it bravely and scare the hell out of it!