My new found passion..!! :)

So,my last post was about my oldest and the most prized passion of my life..DANCE!
Dance has always been an eternal part of my personality..usually evrybody who knws me..would agree with this ! Especially, my friends..! Now,suddenly i am very keenly intersted me in another activity which excites me, challenges me or brings so much joy in me almost like dance did in my childhood ! That new thing in my life is none other than..COOKING !! :) :) I know i know..many of you are rolling your eyes as you are reading this as this new "passion" of mine comes at a risk of harming the environment (my home) :P and/or any good souls that happen to be at the receiving end of it..! But rest assured i would cook only what i want to eat and would eat it myself! :) I dont know why this cooking frenzy has caught hold of me maybe its because i am tired of asking my mum to make me the dishes that i want from the "sanjeeevkapoor.com" website or it might also be the result of the shear boredom caused by my so-called hectic engineering. Or it might be as simple as that..Engineering is driving me nuts ! :) i request my friends to share if they have also been prey to any such "craziness" recently..because if they had then it would give m a great sense of comfort..!! :) I just hope that this adventure of mine doesnt result in anybody ending up hospitalised..thats enough! :) so..any takers for my cooking??? any such good soul reading this?? :)

To watch us dance is to hear our hearts speak..!!

Dance for me is a way of expression,a sense of freedom, an outlet for my feelings - a way to define myself.! i luv dancing...it makes me feel good,,special and happy ! There is one eternal feeling about dance that almost evrybody who dances knows..had felt..!! it is that its just like talking..letting out wat u feel..!! :) and the best kind of dancing is the one you do for yourself..because it is self theraphy..! people who dance dont need anybody else to sort their emotions out..their art does it for them..!!! well..for me..anybbody who is alive must dance..because u cant express that "alive" feeling any better than that..!! like somebody very wisely said.."a day that i dint dance..is a day that i dint live..!" so..my friends..dance and let know the world that you are alive..!!! :) :) :) :)

possessiveness ... !

POSSESSIVNESS..i doubt if any teen's life hasnt been involved with it.. atleast even if not directly..we all have been impacted by this strange and undefined feeling sometime or the other..! now, due to my past experiences..i am going to define exactly the "possessiveness" am gna talk about..! Its "Having or manifesting a desire to control or dominate another, especially in order to limit that person's relationships with others". Now, we all might have had a possesive parent, friend, sis, bro or even a lover. Though many think that the last one is the very common one actually it is not true. our parents, siblings, friends also are possessive sometimes..and I am telling this is in accordance with how i defined possessiveness. How many times have we abruptly severed ties with someone jus cuz ur friend dsnt like u talking ot them? or cuz ur parents/siblings aren't okay with ur relationship with somebody ? Loads of times right?? But usually we dont mind that..because we are jus kinda used to them being with us in our life that we sometimes let them make our decisions and abide by it subconsciously.Bbut in the case of a lover..We expect it to be different because mostly they are new in our life and we want them to understand our completely and be as we wish completely. But i feel possessiveness is healthy in small proportions in all relationships because it let the person know somebody needs you in their life more than anything, when our frnz or anybody is possessive about us it sometimes knowigly or unknowingly makes her feel a bit good ! But having said that, too much of control/dominance might make the relationship a bit suffocating. People might feel the other person thinks that they are unfit to make their own decisions or that their choices / feelings dont matter anymore. a clear communication might stop this from happening..! Let me end by saying this.. "holding onto your loved ones is good and special only till the grip doesnt start hurting them..if it does try loosening it up a bit with your trust and faith in them" !! :)

Running away- a huge leap towards disaster

Okay... Finally I am writing again after a huge gap and that too about a topic that I feel so very strongly about. The title is a phrase very often when talking to my peers on problems and a way to handle it. It’s my favourite catch phrase…!!! :)Basically, all of us have problems at every stage of our life right from school days to our old age... The problems vary but our way of handling it, the basic approach is invariantly same because it reflects a great deal on the kind of person we are! Many problems lead to a stage when you gotta either confront, face the music as they say! Many of us do it... Almost everybody does! But some people chose to walk away, ignore, or even distract themselves when they reach this stage. They postpone that “climax” moment not knowing that it’s gonna come back again and there is a high chance that when it does the situation might not be in our control. Running away can never be a solution. It always yes always makes things worse, uglier and breaks a lot of hearts, trust that took years to gain on its way. There is only one right way to solve/handle a problem... Look it in the eye and face whatever has to happen. That way we control the situation, and it’s a lot more correct to bow down your head because you are sorry, than to put your head down because you have lost the battle. In the former case you don’t lose a battle…on the contrary you gain a very good lesson that enables you to be a better person in the future. So friends, pls next time you have a problem, face it then and there. Walk up to it bravely and scare the hell out of it!

luv..nd my take on it..!!

hi ..its me again.to tel u hw i feel abt sumthing..jus to let it out..!! hmm..k lets c.. LOVE..! hmm..obviously a very very common word nwadays dat i keep hearing around me everywhere..! bt sadly the way ppl define it..it jus gets on my nerves..! i disagree with them so much on many levels..! love today has become commercialized lyk the way festivals round us have gt commercialized..! it s associated with cellphones,teddy bears, heart shaped keychains and MACDONALDS, KFC..EA,SKYWALK..bt nt wit wat it shud actually be.."compatibility,real understanding,dose spl moments,gud friendship,respect fr each other,mutual trust,blind faith..and a kind of bond dat makes u feel spl.." u mite argue saying al the above objects i mentioned are jus manifestations of the feelings or qualities..well if dats the case fyn..bt trust me dre r sum ppl..who r nly taking the first set of things into account.. hmm..sum ppl r ryt."being in a relationship" is very different frm "being in luv" ..! moreover i cnt understand hw wen u r in luv..d dominace factor cums into account..luv is all abt being in harmony..taking decisions together..being in sync.! lyk in a sng or dnce..the rythm,beat.vocal r al together..nthng dominates anythng..!! dats hw luv is supposed to be...!

are we really growing ????????????

India is growing,steadily progressing towards change,diversifying...is it ?? are we really changing ?? honestly i dnt thnk so.. !!! cuz in reality the change lies in the individual's hand..and the future lies in our hand..! "the all mighty and strong youth.." the youth who watever u mite say or argue is still hasnt changed..!! i am a college student..and my classmates who are literate and have more than basic education and are exposed to every damn thing about gender equalty topic..and stil i hear dem say " u r a girl..dre s a certain way in which u gta behave.." almost every week..!! dis basic change is nt hpng in dis small level..so i was into betting..i wuld nt bet that dis thing wil change evn after 50 years because in 50 years we are gna be in responsiblity of defining our lives..nd if we cant get over this small things..forget the bigger stones like corruption,fair play,democracy...! dey probably dn evn figure in our dictionary.. !

PS: not intending any1..nd evn if i did..its true..! nothing above is false..! its jus reality..pls take it with a pinch of salt..!

my take on friendship.. !!

People often say that love is the most mysterious and unexplainable feeling in the world. but i feel that friendhsip scores above that in all the above said areas. cuz all the relationships start with friendhsip. only then it has the potential to go to the next level. friendhsip is a mystic bond shared between people. u hang out with your friends,spend every possible waking moment with them , share all our mind breaking, earth stopping feelings with them. they might not be 1% like you are but u see urself in them like they r some kind of mirrors.
U fyt wit them, quarrel with them lyk rogues, but after a minute problem your heart soul and mind immediatley stars aching for their presence. their words "heyy..chill..stop being a baby..we can get over this..relax.." ,their actions defending u even if it as ur mistake.. !
friendship is the ability of our heart to look beyind our frnz flaws, respect them for what they are..and jus need them and be there for them every second of our life.. !
life can not be great without this "friendhsip" in the world..! this is what makes the life ride worthwhile..! it reduces our worries and immensely mulitplies our happiness..!
Jus think : all those idiotic inside jokes, insanely loud laughter for no obvious reason, stupid touchy feely nonsense ... can u evn imagine lyf without it..? well, honestly i cant..!
so..here's to my frnds..for without idiots..lyk dsnt seem worthwile..!!

Mum...Dad m growing up..!!

hi frnzz.. ma first blog was abt kids who desert their parents! m gonna give another perspective on the parent-kid relationship..! there are some things that we can never deny..!Lyk, this is the most purest , strngest and unselfish relationship of all times !! but sumtyms itsnt picture perfect ! the above qualities are there bt sumtyms they tend to overdo themselves ! todays "hi-tech" "modern" and "so-called sophisticated" world has left may parents with a big "?" over their faces on how to have the right connection with their kid..! some think that they can "protect" their kids from the world jus by making all the decisions for them because then nothing can go wrong.. and we wil al be safe..! bt dats not so..! hw long wil be under them..? how long wil they cum along us..holding our hands..showing us the way ? At one point,
we would have to take some decision on our own and that might be an important one and mite be the first tym we do it ! wht if we go wrng.. ? dats it ryt.? al efforts in vain..! also our parents sumtyms out of xperience remember the mistakes that they once did in their life..and passionately restrict us.. from doing things on our own ! but u knw they frget sumtyms dat we wnt do the mistakes dat we did.. ! We have new , better msitakes ;) to make..! ryt..?
we would like some freedom to take our decisions but we would definitely appreciate your advice...but the final say must be ours ! After all we are gonna live with it..and if our decisions go wrong we will atleast know how to correct it !